Understanding Physical & Emotional Limits

I think the first thing to understand is that we all have physical and emotional limits.

• Further, they are not the same.

 

• What one person finds REJUVENATING is the next person's STRESS NIGHTMARE.

 

• Understanding  a spouse, child, family member or friend's "LIMITS" ---- helps us from taking things "PERSONALLY."
  • The other side of that is that taking things "PERSONALLY" is often what motivates us to figure things out.

 

• When it comes to PHYSICAL & EMOTIONAL LIMITS in Neuro-Diversity ---- that is extremely COMPLICATED.
  • There are VISUAL CUES but they are not necessarily what we're expecting --- sometimes they are.
  • Further, it is not just "OTHERS" that find this COMPLICATED --- it is the person themselves.

For Neuro-Diverse Couples, Spouses, Families --- once you can start to recognize some IDIOSYNCRATIC ENERGY and EXECUTIVE FUNCTIONING DIFFERENCES ---

• It's not necessarily that big a deal.
• BUT if you don't make some relationship ACCOMMODATIONS & WORK-AROUNDS --
  • it can certainly become a big deal and likely will become a big deal.
    

The "FAMILY" is the Foundation of Society and whether its your BIOLOGICAL FAMILY or a CHOSEN FAMILY --- you and they are getting a BACKSTAGE PASS to Human Reality.

• A challenging thing is making ACCOMMODATIONS and WORK-AROUNDS for others
• And an even SCARIER thing is asking for those ACCOMMODATIONS and WORK-AROUNDS.